Your dignity matters. LGBTQIA2S+ service members have been asked to shrink themselves, hide parts of who they are, or navigate rules designed to make their lives harder for decades. And even now, with the current administration targeting trans and queer military personnel, many people are feeling that familiar pressure all over again.
Your service matters. Whether it’s LGBTQIA2S+ veteran groups, local organizations, or just a circle of people who get it, having a place where you don’t have to explain yourself can make all the difference. This website offers a list of those groups.
Your safety matters. It’s also okay to acknowledge the loss: your career has been disrupted, your trust is shaken, and your relationships are strained. You need access to people who understand military culture and help untangle the stress, the trauma, and the constant vigilance these policies create. We have those contacts, too.
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